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Gabisile & Motlasi on love, kids, and the money questions to consider in blended families.

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Building a blended family comes with real financial considerations, especially when children are involved. 

In this episode of On the Money, actress and singer Gabisile Tshabalala and her partner, Motlatsi Mafatshe, join our Group Head of Financial Education, John Manyike, to reflect on the future conversations that would matter if their relationship ever moved to the next stage. 

From how she would secure her children’s financial future to ensuring that they have assets in their names and avoiding long-term complications. Gabi and Motlasi share an honest look at the decisions many parents need to consider before officially blending families.

It’s an important reminder that love comes with responsibility, and planning early can prevent unnecessary complications later.

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Chapters
  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 00:04 Meet Actress & Singer Gabisile Tshabalala & her Partner, Motlatsi Mafatshe.
  • 01:11 Motlasi & Gabisile's Acting Journey
  • 08:48 How They Would Navigate Marriage as a Blended Family.
  • 14:31 Money & The Risks of Unmet Expectations in a Cohabit.
  • 19:43 The Role of Families in Relationships.
  • 22:01 Lessons Learnt From Previous Relationships.
  • 27:43 Preparing for the Unthinkable: Financial Game Plan.
  • 37:07 Structuring Business & Pleasure.
  • 41:15 Marriage & Financial Lessons Learnt.
  • 49:53 The Difference Between The Music & Acting Industry.
  • 56:13 Word of Encouragement to Aspiring Creatives & Business Partners in Relationships.
  • 59:17 Closing Remarks.
25 Nov 2025 English South Africa Education

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