What would Shai do?

"Hi Shai_Quan I hope you can help me with a situation I am right now.

I am in a situation that has me feeling confused and I really don't know what to do. I am 21 years old and I am still a virgin and I am dating someone and he keeps forcing me to have sex with him and I do not want to and I am not ready but he threatens to leave me if I don't. I don't know what to do as I don't want to loose him..

Please help me out."