I am the woman I am because...

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Stacey Norman and J Sbu invited YOU to reflect on the influential people and pivotal experiences that have shaped their identities, especially in honour of Women's Month and Woman Crush Wednesday.

Stacey shares heartfelt stories about her mother’s profound impact and the transformative experiences that defined her journey after turning 30, including career milestones and personal growth. J Sbu encourages women to recognise the power of female role models and the importance of self-determination, emphasising that this episode is all about honouring the women who make us who we are.

Listeners join the conversation, offering moving tributes to mothers, grandmothers, teachers, and sisters who provided unwavering support, guidance, and love through life’s challenges. From overcoming adversity to celebrating boldness and confidence, each story highlights the unique paths women take to become their authentic selves.

Tune in for an uplifting, empowering hour filled with gratitude, solidarity, and the reminder that every woman’s story matters. Whether you’re seeking inspiration or a sense of community, this episode is a heartfelt tribute to the women who shape our world.
13 Aug 2025 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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