Baggage Claim: What to and not bring into a new relationship

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The reality is that some relationships do not have a happy ending. We all go into them with the best intentions, but the reality is things do not always work out as we planned.

Stacey and JSbu on Thursday afternoon wanted to chat to KZN listeners about the things that we leave behind in our old relationships that we tend to carry into our next. These can be tangible or certain learnt behaviours.

Or perhaps for you, it is not the tangible things but rather the behaviours. So, maybe your partner enjoyed doing or watching a particular TV show with an ex. Would it bother you, if they wanted to carry on that tradition with you? Listen to the podcast to hear what KZN had to say.
20 Aug 2020 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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